Some thoughts about human development. Potential
problems initially exist, for the unborn embryo, especially if the mother engaged
in drug and alcohol behavior. Even if not, development is affected by the
birth. Although Sigmund Freud criticized the details of Otto Rank’s ideas
regarding the trauma of birth, Freud did, however, considered the birth trauma
as a prototype for later anxieties. This first experience of severe threat,
according to Freud could provide a pattern for subsequent reactions-the sudden
flooding of the immature nervous system with sensory excitation and the
prominence of motor discharge through the respiratory and cardiac systems as a
fetus begins to breathe independently. And to rid itself by increased heart
action of the toxic products accumulated in the bloodstream during birth. Freud
thought that the later anxiety states typically involve a similar sense of being
flooded by stimuli, difficulties breathing and rapid heartbeat. In other words,
this first experience, creates an enduring pattern of reaction to danger.
Similarly, Rank believed that the change from the all-encompassing effortless
bliss and warmth and protection in the womb to the painful experiences of
postnatal conditions was the basis in developing “mortal fear”- he called
primal anxiety. In other words, as result of birth, we develop and a baseline
for our first experience of anxiety and fear in the conditioning of that
experience. So we start out life with a recipe set for anxiety or catastrophic
danger.
Much later on in development within the prefrontal cortex is the
further development of perception, language, thinking, and emotion. Further, Freud wrote about the “ego ideal.”
This theoretical concept has to do with the part of the personality that
relates to the aims and goals of the self. This process-concept refers to a
conscious or unconscious emulation of significant figures with whom the person
has identified. These figures could be parents, teachers, presidents, sports
figures, entertainers, movie stars, etc. This identification process begins at
an early age and continues during the span of aging. It is not only the kids
that collect baseball- football cards. Go to a book signing and have that
football player sign your football playing card, your cap, your jersey, or your
book. That autograph is important for that adult
.
Or even, retrieve that piece of clothing from that rock star as he
leaves the stage. One may even have, in their collection, a postcard with the
signature of an ex-United States president or some other politician. Just go to
a concert or watch a Jennifer Lopez TV special, and view all the screaming and
adoring fans in the audience. Even the parade, of the Pope results in
transformed adults on the sideline. Our
ego ideal hardly ever seems to rest as there are plenty of opportunities to
yell, shout, scream, and express those emotions at the numerous and various venues
available to all of us.
One important aspect of the ego ideal is the basis or foundation for
its development. Don’t forget there already exists, either consciously or
unconsciously mortal fear or anxiety. Potential anxiety is ready to express
itself at any time. In addition to anxiety, a sense of insecurity, inferiority
or some other deficit within ourselves is ready to be expressed. Alfred Adler
coined the term the “inferiority complex.” This was a term Adler used to
describe the uneasiness most of us feel in our individualistic and highly
competitive society. Adler believed that heredity, such as a general bodily
defects was associated with “Organ inferiority.” This significantly affects the
development of personality as well. An example, is the famous Demosthenes, who
became a great orator to compensate for his early speech impediment. And there
are numerous examples of individuals who have overcome their organic anomalies.
Another insecurity to overcome relates to the school years. Erik H
Erickson in his psychosocial model of man wrote about the stage of Industry
versus Inferiority. Very early, in pre-and elementary school our place is
established within the classroom. That pecking order is based on how we
perceive ourselves relative to others in the classroom. Can we spell, know our
numbers, ABC’s, perform arithmetic calculations and read as well as others?
Some of our classmates seemed to know and perform flawlessly. We were aware, as
well as our teacher. Teachers had a way of identifying and showing favoritism to
those who were smarter and could answer those questions quickly. Maybe they
were called “teacher’s pet.” Don’t forget that someone corrected those mistakes
and did not allow them to pass unnoticed. The teacher knew, classmates knew and
so did you when a mistake was made. The smart kids, the egg heads seemed to
associate together. Yes, there was status within each classroom, year after
year after year
.
Those that don’t fare as well; those that don’t develop the tools
and skills necessary for developing the necessary foundation for work [deficits in the 3Rs-making things],
have difficulty identifying in this technology arena and develop a sense of
inadequacy and/or inferiority. These Individuals consider themselves mediocre
and inadequate.
These deficits and perceived deficits without a perceived beautiful
face, beautiful figure, and beautiful hair become apparent. Further, our social
skills or lack of are also on exhibit. How we walk, how we talk and the color
of our skin are also factors. In other words, each of us has potentially plenty
of deficits to deal within the aging process. Thus primal anxiety and the need
to improve or cover and mask our deficits are psychological issues that we
face.
Our political leaders and advertisers also know about people psychology.
What politician does not employ fear and is there to protect the public from
harm? Just think of what is happened since 9/11. We have what’s called Homeland
Security ; have been at war ever since; are combating terrorist groups;
debating about Iran and the bomb; talk about Second Amendment rights, like
bearing arms. We have the largest military and spend more for military than any
other country. What president hopeful or what political party’s theme says they
are going to protect you the best?
Our advertisers are more sophisticated when it comes to employing
fear, anxiety, or taking care of those human deficits. That hair extension;
facial cream; lipstick; diamond will help you get the man of your dreams. Of
course, the latest dress, top, belt, shoes and handbags-the outfit makes the
difference. And, if you drink the right beer, you will be there with that
pretty woman. Just think of what a drug like Viagra will do for you?
Human Fear
All right, we all have anxiety and insecurities. It’s important to
know thyself, and what pushes your buttons. The ego ideal emphasizes what one
should be or do. However, hopefully, it doesn’t determine what one should not
be or do. Making decisions with awareness, certainly helps.
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