Monday, December 31, 2018

Bo's Competitiveness Part 4



Bo, if he was receptive to someone else’s idea, had an option. However, Bo was stubborn and believed that he was right .He cut off his nose regardless. He could’ve put in Kevin Casey, Michigan’s best throwing quarterback. However,” Kevin was in Bo’s doghouse, in part because he was cocky, a free thinker, and had an unusual lifestyle. Casey could run and throw, and think on his feet.” Unfortunately, for the Wolverines. Bo still wanted to run the ball and Quarterback Tom Slade, as quarterback could not throw the ball effectively in Michigan loss to Stanford 13-12. Bo’s stubbornness or anger was exhibited passively as he withheld putting Casey in the game. Everyone knew, Casey was the better throwing quarterback.
In spite of or because of Bo’s neurotic competitiveness and dominance tendencies, the University of Michigan football, became like Haley’s Comet. It was spectacular, admired and clearly visible for all to view. For 20 years, Bo Schembechler’s Warriors dominated the football world. Similarly, when Michigan football wavered after Lloyd Carr’s retirement, Jim Harbaugh was brought in to resurrect Michigan football. Jim is good, but at this point, the Wolverine faithful are not yet convinced that he is the new Messiah.
Go Blue
References
Horney, K “The Neurotic Personality of Our Time,” WW Norton and Company, Incorporated.
Lieberman, F, “Bo’s Warriors Bo Schembechler and the Transformation of Michigan Football,” Triumph Books.

Sunday, December 30, 2018

Bo's Competitiveness Part 3


 Bo’s Warriors remembered the frequency of Bo’s wrath. His hostility, competitive power controlling tenancies and anger was frequently displayed on the practice field. With power and competitive tendencies, we find anger. This suggests that for Bo, football was a life-and-death experience. He had to win, at all costs, regardless of the personal or self-sacrificing costs. It certainly didn’t help that Bo’s competitive players. Initially expressed their resentment toward their coach. In fact, it was as if they had an inhibition towards winning. For the first five games of that 1969 season, the Wolverines record was three wins and two losses. Bo’s seemingly mothering or looking for affection attitude change occurred during the halftime against the University of Minnesota. The Wolverines were behind and Bo, during half time, didn’t rant or rage, like a father, at his players. Instead, he talked to them clearly, directly and stated something to the effect that they were the better team and they shouldn’t allow themselves to lose the game. From the second half on, the team, dominated Minnesota, as well as the remaining teams on their schedule.
Another example of Bo’s hostility, with his competitive tendency, was his conviction that he was right, and would not allow or take in input that was counter to his own. Bo’s 1971 team was undefeated and dominated their opponents with their superlative and crushing rushing attack- “it was 3 yards and a cloud of dust.” They were primed and ready to face Stanford in the 1972 Rose Bowl.  With that victory, they would have won the National Championship, according to Thom Darden. Stanford was good, but not in the same class as the Wolverines. However, to diminish, Michigan’s famed running attack, the” Sanford Indians” stacked the line of scrimmage and placed 10 men on their side of the ball . That meant they had more defensive players on the line than Michigan’s offensive line players. There were just too many “Indians” for Michigan to block.
To Be Continued

Saturday, December 29, 2018

Bo's Competitiveness Part 2


When Bo took over the helm of the University Michigan football in 1969, he wanted to defeat, Woody Hayes his hero, his mentor whom he admired greatly. With his competitiveness, and dominance tendencies, he had very little difficulty in mustering all his mental and physical resources required to defeat his friend who was also became his enemy. Bo was hired to coach football at Michigan by athletic director Don Canham. The reason that mattered most for the A.D. was to beat Ohio State’s Woody Hayes. Woody Hayes’ Ohio State Buckeyes demolished, embarrassed and humiliated. Bump Elliott’s 1968 football squad by the score of 50-14. That spanking, by Woody, resulted in the firing of the respected, dapper and beloved Coach Bump Elliott.
Early on in 1969, that Ohio State game was circled on Bo’s blackboard for all to witness. That meant one thing and one thing only -beat OSU. Bo also had his players, during practice, display the number 50 on their helmets. That 50 number symbolized and signified the previous year’s drubbing and humiliation by OSU.  He pushed his players on the practice field, running the same plays over and over until the play was run perfectly. This resulted in excessive practice demands without player mistakes-just ask Reggie McKenzie. When a mistake was made, and someone screwed up, Bo’s hostility or the result  of his fear of failure was apparent. During one practice, Quarterback Jim Betts mishandled the ball that he received from the center with a fumble. Jim didn’t fumble purposely. Bo’s hostility and anger was directed at Jim in front of his teammates. It didn’t matter that, according to Jim, that he was embarrassed nor humiliated. Bo screamed, and kicked Jim in the ass yelling, “Son of a bitch, don’t drop the dam ball again. Run the damn play.” Initially, Jim refused. But, teammate Reggie McKenzie yelled out “rope man” which was Jim’s nickname. It was only then that Jim ran the play, but, halfheartedly and only going through the motions.
Even though Bo had a terrific season and his Wolverines beat Ohio State In that classic upset 24-12, one can argue that the season, took a tremendous toll on Bo. Further, Bo’s pleasure, happiness and well-being did not last long after beating Woody’s Buckeyes or winning the trip to play in the Rose Bowl. Bo, at age 40, in fact, suffered a heart attack on the eve of that USC bowl game.
To Be Continued

Friday, December 28, 2018

Bo's Competitiveness


Competitiveness is very prevalent in our socioeconomic culture. In fact, competition relates to too many of our day-to-day living activities, especially with our interactions with others. This post addresses aspects of the competitiveness of the legendary Bo Schembechler.
With Bo, as a result of his competitive tendencies, he compared himself against all others, regardless of the circumstances. He simply wanted to be ahead, on top or dominant against all others. It didn’t matter as he competed against his two older sisters for the single family bicycle or making that tackle and not letting go of the ball carrier, even though he was dragged, cut and bruised along the way. Secondly, he not only wanted to achieve more than anyone else, or to have greater success, but he also wanted to be exceptional. It just wasn’t enough for him, to be a major-league ball player, he wanted to be the superstar and pitch in game seven, the most important game, of the World Series. This was certainly a fantasy of grandiose proportion. More than likely, he wasn’t able to acknowledge or place any major emphasis on the significance of such an unrealistic fantasy. He was psychologically limited and not insightful in regards to his own underlying dynamics.
Bo wanted to be the best in every possible way and play college football for the Irish, which, at the time, was Notre Dame. Further, with major ambition and competitiveness tendencies, he was greatly sensitive to any barrier or frustration that interfered with his achieving success. Successes, for him, was only winning, while failure or fear of failure was experienced as a humiliation and being perceived as a loser. Also, closely found within a competitive and power controlling attitude was hostility since his emphasis or myopic focus was on victory. That meant defeating and dominating any and all opponents regardless of the situation. Unfortunately, on the playing field, his destructive emotional being tendencies seemed stronger than his constructive emotional being tendencies.  It was more important for Bo to see others defeated and to avoid, perceived failure than to succeed himself. Looking or viewing Bo’s body language from the sidelines was testimony. He didn’t appear to be enjoying himself while on the side lines in the heat of battle. He was limited and unable to complement his players, in games, even though they made spectacular plays.
To Be Continued

Sunday, December 23, 2018

Why We Mislead Part 3



  Cognitive linguist George Lakoff, PhD from the University of California, addressed alternative facts regarding Trump’s inauguration crowd claims.  Debunking or calling attention to this claim did not diminish their power because people assess the evidence presented to them through a framework of pre-existing beliefs and prejudices. If the facts do not fit into your cognitive-emotional frame work or if it’s threatening, then it is simply more convenient to label them false news facts. This is similar to the theory of cognitive dissonance. An example of this idea was borne out by Briony Swire-Thompson’s research at the University of Western Australia. This research documented the effectiveness of evidence-based information and the refuting of false beliefs. The study was based on the false statement made by Donald Trump. He stated that vaccines cause autism. It was reported that Trump supporters showed a decidedly stronger belief in the misinformation when it had Donald Trump’s name attached to it. Then, these participants were given a short explanation as to the correct information. There was no relationship between the vaccine and autism. Initially, the participants accepted the fact and acknowledged the truth. However, testing the participants a week later, showed that their beliefs in the misinformation had bounced back to nearly the same original levels.
In summary, there are numerous reasons why we speak untruths. 1. Lying behavior begins early in life. 2. Lying is easy and often there are no serious negative consequences for the behavior. 3. Everyone seems to engage, to some degree, in the behavior, including our “politicians.” 4. It occurs during the evolution of the human brain. 5. For too many, it’s a significant characteristic in their character tendencies 6. Humans are gullible and tend to deceive themselves as well. For more detailed information, read the article in full.

Saturday, December 22, 2018

Why We Mislead Part 2


Lying,  is not rare, and most Homo sapiens are very adept at it; lying is easy to do; lies are big and small; and lying to strangers, coworkers, friends and loved ones are typical and frequent. Further, Homo sapiens are terrible at detecting lies. It is believed that the use of exaggeration and/or lies of omission have been part of our culture for a long time, and play good a significant role in the human condition of gullibility. Remember, the Ninth Commandment “You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor” was purposely written a long time ago and still remains not respected nor possible. Dr. Bella De Paulo, a social psychologist, decades ago, reported that subjects, in her research, lied an average of 1 to 2 times a day; most of the lies were innocuous and with the purpose to hide one’s inadequacies or to protect the feelings of others; some lies were excuses; and further, most people have at some point told one or more serious lies during their lifetime.
It is speculated that lying behavior began shortly after the emergence of language.  “It’s so easy compared to the other ways of gaining power,” stated Dr. Sissela Bok an ethicist at Harvard University. Researchers have also found that Homo sapiens easily believe in lies, in spite of contradictory evidence or facts suggesting otherwise. Because of the productivity for deceiving others, this exposes our vulnerability of receiving false information. Social media has added to society’s inability or difficulty in keeping up with the truth and separating truth from non-truth.
Other research, by Dr. Kang Lee, at the University of Toronto, in the study of children, found that kids become more proficient at lying as they become older. Theory of the Mind is one idea used to explain the phenomena. It is believed that the facility we acquire for understanding the beliefs, intentions and knowledge of others, is when the  child has the ability to put himself in someone else’s shoes . This happens during the evolution and development of the executive function of the brain. They found that two-year-olds, who lied, performed better on tests of theory of the mind and executive function than those who didn’t; and, at age 16 kids that were proficient liars simply out performed poor liars using the same variables.
To Be Continued

Friday, December 21, 2018

Why We Mislead


Why We Mislead
While visiting Veloyce for my overuse injury at his Monster of Massage office, I borrowed his June, 2017 Edition of National Graphic. It was titled “Why We Lie   The science behind our complicated relationship with the truth. This timely article correlated with Judge Emmet Sullivan’s comments regarding Michael Flynn “Arguably, you sold your country out!”
The introduction to the article was about a man named Alexi Santana. His name was a lie. This man’s fabrications resulted in his being accepted for admission to Princeton in the fall of 1989. He told a most interesting fable. Further on, there were statements about the many criminals that lie, deceive and victimize such as financier Bernie Madoff. He employed a Ponzi scheme for his crime. The Ponzi scheme was named after Charles Ponzi who built a pyramid scheme selling international postal reply coupons. Aside from conning investors by promising them, terrific  returns, his scam involved paying one investor with money he collected from others. He was apprehended in 1920.
Past Pres. Richard Nixon lied, to stay in power. He denied having any role in Watergate. In 2016, President Donald Trump falsely claimed that his inauguration turn out, was larger than Pres. Barack Obama’s first one. This lie had to do with his frequent tendency  to enhance his prestige. This tendency is likely an unconscious protection against his self-perception of insignificance. Over and over, he needs to impress others, needs to be admired and needs to be respected. Perhaps a major component of his self-esteem, rests on, being admired and respected. If he doesn’t receive admiration, his self-esteem shrinks. For him, this lying behavior is a consistent and constant ordeal. He’s likely unaware of feeling humiliated because the knowledge of it would be too painful for him. Yes, it’s a protection against feeling insignificant and it is a feeble attempt to inflate his damaged self-esteem.
The National Geographic article went on and cited many examples of others who lied. Examples, such as American swimmer Ryan Lochte in the 2016 Summer Olympics; physicist Jan Hendrik Schon regarding breakthroughs in molecular semiconductor research; Frank Abagnale Jr. the main character in the 2002 movie “ Catch Me If You Can.” This impostor stated “I had to be creative in order to survive. I do and will continue to regret it for the rest of my life.” PT Barnum was cited along with many others who falsified the truth.survive. I do and will continue to regret it for the rest of my life.” PT Barnum was cited along with many others who falsified the truth.
To Be Continued

Sunday, December 16, 2018

Addendum to Parental Expectations and Bruised self-esteem Part 3



Addendum to Parental Expectations and Bruised Self-Esteem Part 3
One example of Bo, not admitting that he was wrong was illustrated in the practice involving Jim Brandstatter following a blocked punt by a Missouri player, the Saturday before. During the punting drill, Bo said he would pay any player $10 who blocked the punt. Sure, and behold, the punt got blocked. Bo thought it was Jim’s fault. Jim, making his block, ran downfield towards the punt returner. Bo began running after him, shouting obscenities with spittle running down his face. He caught up to Jim and began slapping him, yelling and out-of-control. Line coach Jerry Hanlon shortly caught up to Bo and told him something to the effect that Jim made his block. Bo replied, “He needed it anyway!”
Off the field, Bo demonstrated behaviors associated of a warm, loving, all-encompassing father. Many of his players attest to that fact. For instance, years later, all Pro Thom Darden with the Cleveland Browns visited, Bo in his office. It was customary for former players to come back and be with Bo. Thom didn’t know that one of Bo’s sons died in an automobile accident. When the subject came up, both Bo and Thom cried like babies. Their bond was strong.
Both Bo’s neurosis, and loving behaviors resulted in him becoming an unparalleled successful University of Michigan coach. So successful, there’s a look-alike statue of Bo, that’s placed in front of Schembechler Hall. Current coach Jim Harbaugh passes it every day. The All-American Michigan’s Jim Harbaugh was Bo’s quarterback. Now, unfortunately or fortunately, coach Harbaugh’s been compared to Bo, the legend.
More stories to be found in Bo’s Warriors Bo Schembechler and the Transformation of Michigan Football published by Triumph Books.

Saturday, December 15, 2018

Addendum to Parental Expectations And Damaged Self-Esteem Part 2


Addendum to Parental Expectations, and Damaged Self-Esteem Part 2

Examples of Bo Schembechler’s character and tendency to express power was displayed on the football practice field and during spring conditioning drills. He pushed, screamed and even challenged Cecil Pryor, a massive defensive end, “if you want to fight somebody, fight me” during a Slap and Stomp spring conditioning drill. “The athletes agreed at the time that Bo was a crazy maniac” per Frank Gusich who became the second Wolfman and was considered by his team’s player’s as one of the toughest, if not the toughest. While going through Bo’s unorthodox and grueling conditioning and practices, Frank reported the following thoughts “lock the coach up and throw away the key; how could any other team be in better shape than our Michigan team... Especially in the fourth quarter of a close or difficult game? because of all the superior or extreme conditioning. The better conditioned team would win the game.” Frank also reported overhearing an NFL scout at one practice, state “these guys practice hard.”
Make no mistake about it, for Bo, football was for the strong and not for the weak. In fact, early in his first year of coaching with the Wolverines, It was “do it my way or take the Highway.” Not only that, a drove of players left “the team because of Schembechler’s autocratic way of teaching.” Because of the dwindling numbers that quit the team, because of Bo, he put up a sign stating “those who stay will be champions.” The Pru man or John Prusiecki added to the sign “those who quit will be lawyers, doctors and captains of industry.” The players never revealed Pru man’s identity. His teammates protected him from the maniac.
To Be Continued

Friday, December 14, 2018

Addendum to Parental Expectations, and Damaged Self-Esteem


Addendum to Parental Expectations, and Damaged Self-esteem
The purpose of this addendum is to provide additional motivational dynamics, in order to better understand, Bo Schembechler’s character regarding his aggressive behavioral tendencies. As we know, we all start out and begin life feeling insecure and powerless. Personality develops, as a result of parental, peer group associations, socioeconomic religious, and environmental interactions. Within our being, unfortunately, anxiety and fear stay with us in varying degrees. With anxiety and fear, unfortunately often follows anger and the expression of aggression.   For too many, inappropriate, aggressive and hateful interpersonal explosive interactions are too frequent. Fortunately, there are various ways to compensate. Some mechanisms are good and some are bad. For instance, the feeling of power, is one way to compensate, and is appropriate in a non-neurotic person. In this case, the individual has the realization of his own superior strength. That sense of superior strength can be expressed in numerous ways. It can be physical, mental, including being wise and having wisdom.
For too many others, it results in more of a striving for power. This striving for power is often expressed toward members in the family, towards political figures and ideas, economic philosophies, educational attainments and settings and even pertaining to the area of sports, etc. In other words, a neurotic striving for power can be born out of anxiety, hatred, and feelings of inferiority. The emphasis is on the neurotic. In other words, normal striving for power becomes born out of a sense of strength, while for the neurotic, the striving for power is born out of a sense of weakness.
Anxiety is a major cause in the development of a neurosis. Unfortunately, with anxiety, we often find anger and often the expression of aggression. This also means this the individual is on guard, so to speak to any form of perceived helpless, or weakness in himself. As a consequence, he exhibits behaviors that are diametrically opposed to this often unconscious sense of insecurity. His anxiety is a clue, although he may be consciously unaware. The striving for power is paramount to essentially an emotionally protective device against the danger of feeling or being regarded as insignificant. This neurotic individual develops the irrational idea that because of his own “strength,” he should be able to master any situation, no matter how difficult it is to accomplish. Just put your mind to it. The perception of any weakness is experienced as not only dangerous, but as a disgrace. Therefore, this individual, by perception, classifies people as either “strong” or “weak.”  In essence, he admires the strong in attitude and despises the weak, in attitude. Furthermore, the neurotic’s anxiety and insecurity translates into the desire and drive motivationally to control others and to have his own way. He is inclined to want to be right all the time and dislikes being proved wrong, even if it is only an insignificant detail. Some refer to this as being narcissistic.
To Be Continued

Sunday, December 9, 2018

Parental Expectations with Damaged Self-Esteem Part 3

Parental Expectations with Damaged Self-Esteem  Part 3
College and professional coaches are “good” models in that they have no difficulty being enraged when the call goes against their team. This reminds me of a time when during a Ohio State and Michigan football game, Michigan’s Thom Darden made this spectacular interception guaranteeing Michigan’s win in 1971. Sports Illustrated referred to it as a moment of glory and” a play that defines college football.” Woody Hayes would have none of that.
Woody went up and down the sideline, knocking over yard markers while ranting and raging. The officials wound up giving him 2 unsportsmanlike penalties on that play against the Buckeyes.
I met, Bill Quimby that notorious referee a few years ago, at Thom Darden’s book signing in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. We talked about that call and that Woody was instrumental in removing Bill as a Big Ten football referee. Bill wound up being an NFL football referee for many years. I never asked Bill if he thanked Woody for his promotion.

In essence, it doesn’t take much in our society for us to experience frustration. With frustration, it becomes personalized with the release of anger as a result. That anger can be directed inward or verbally or physically directed outward. Signing a parent’s code of conduct is just a signature. How can a deeply over invested, frustrated parent or individual be expected to control that negative, tension filled emotion by signing a document?  Neither the 10 Commandments have not worked very well in controlling hateful, aggressive, emotionally based behavior, nor has the “death penalty”.
We know that the US leads in the manufacture of guns and the number of deaths per capita in the world. We also know that the ownership of guns can be political, and that one’s opinion regarding such can be emotionally based. As long as we

Saturday, December 8, 2018

Parental Expectations with Damaged Self-Esteem Part 2

Parental Expectations with Damaged Self-Esteem  Part 2
Another explanation of inappropriate parental actions resides with the emotions, as opposed to simply rational motivations of behavior.  The development of the ego ideal, in the mind, of the young, creates levels of perfection, with aims and goals of unrealistic expectations and achievements in numerous areas.  These unrealistic unconscious emotional developmental markers can simply never be mastered during one’s lifetime. So, when a young adolescent later becomes a parent, that original early non fulfillment continues to be never reached nor satisfied. Not only that, the individual was more than likely unaware of his unconscious emotional deficit and drive. It’s not surprising, that the male parent, by  means of introjection and projection, wishes his male offspring ,chip off the old block, to do well and in essence to fulfill his own unconscious dynamic  coupled with expectations” I want what’s best for my kid and I want my kid to better or exceed me.”  Whose goal? Spending money; traveling to practices; and tournaments was merely a futile attempt to fulfill the built-in failure of the ego ideal dynamic and rationalize the parent’s sacrifice. There are exceptions of course. Imagine being the basketball son of Shaquille O’Neil or Michel Jordan? For them, it’s a set up for failure.  Poor kid to have a legend for a father.
Bo Schembechler’s motivation illustrates the power dynamics of the ego ideal.  As a kid, the southpaw high school pitcher Bo had his heart set on playing college football for Notre Dame and pitch in game seven of the World Series. He did not accomplish either goal. However, he became a football coach, and in the process expressed his unmet emotional dynamics with frustration, anger and a myopic focus. His coaching methods and style were physically brutal and disrespectful like with his preseason “slap and stomp” drill. Verbally, he swore, was sarcastic, put down his players, and didn’t complement them even when they made spectacular plays. He said things like “you’re the worst player in college football, we wasted a scholarship on you, and son of a bitch.” His coaching behavior was based on the premise to avoid losing, at all costs, which would be interpreted as failure. Since, emotionally, failure was experienced as weakness, terrible, and as being a “loser.” Not good for one’s damaged self-esteem, either. Off the field, he could be warm and fuzzy like a father. Jim Betts, Thom Darden, Jim Brandstatter, Reggie Mc Kenzie, Fritz Seyferth, Mike Keller and others have their personal stories. A smart phone with picture and recording of his football practices would’ve spelled trouble for Bo.
Frustration can develop when the child, adolescent or teen does not dominate, makes mistakes, nor distinguish himself in the sport. Frustration leads to anger, and the unhappy, perturbed adult can direct his displeasure against son by disapproval, withdrawing, etc. However, more than likely, it is also easy for him to displace and release his hostility and direct it toward an opposing player, an opposing team, or an opposing parent.  Displacing the anger towards a referee is also typical and much too common.

Friday, December 7, 2018

Parental Expectations with Damaged Self-Esteem


Parental Expectations with Damaged Self Esteem
An article titled “Parents Behaving Badly, by the Numbers” found in the November 4, 2018 edition of the New York Times was a perfect example of a parent’s inappropriate and disgusting behavior found in today’s culture. Per the article, “a video captured the angry crowd as it swarmed the football field to protest a penalty flag.  A man grabbed a referee from behind and body slammed him onto the ground. “This happened when the parent of a 13-year-old attended his boy’s football game in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Way to go dad!
In many states, parents, in their kid’s sports, are encouraged to adhere to a “Parent’s Code of Conduct.” This code includes statements like “I will be in control of my emotions;” and “I will remember that the game is for our youth-not adults.” Not surprising, a 2017 study of The National Association of Sports Officials reported that 40% of the officials named parents as a source of unsportsmanlike behavior.
 Rational explanations like money and a sense of belonging for the parents, which is similar to a tribal effect, have been associated with why parents are emotionally over invested in their kid’s athletics. A study in 2016, evaluated 78 fathers and 85 mothers; with median incomes topping 120,000 dollars a year; ¾ of the parents had a college degree; and spent an average of $1,583 a year. It was reported that spending more on the sport didn’t predict the child’s enjoyment; and that children who perceived their parents, as investing heavily in their sport tended to report a greater sense of parental pressure with a reduced sense of enjoyment.
To Be Continued

Saturday, December 1, 2018

Disappointment Part 2


Disappointment Part 2
Now we proceed to November 23, 1969, 49 years ago. I was in a PhD program at Wayne State University studying for my qualifying exams. And, I am with a group of other to be psychologists. It was a Saturday and I turned on the TV in my apartment so we could watch the Michigan and Ohio State football game. I didn’t remember, at that time, that the Wolverines were 17 ½ point underdogs to the undefeated national champions Ohio State Buckeyes. I also didn’t know that my sister Bev was on her first date with Roger at that game.  Bev remembered that season with the announcer stating “Taylor touchdown” over and over again. She is dying to meet Billy Taylor, part of that, infamous Bump Elliott recruiting class.
I passed my qualifying exams and a few years later earned my Ph.D.; Bev is with Roger; and Bo Schembechler became the legend. The underdog Wolverines whipped the Buckeyes 24 to 12. Yes, Taylor scored a touchdown and first stringer’s Darden, Keller, Curtis, and Dierdorf distinguished themselves on the battle field in Ann Arbor on that Saturday afternoon. Because of that classic upset and because Schembechler was a protégé of Woody Hayes and that fiercely fought   game became the start of the 10 year war between the two coaching giant’s .The classic and best college rivalry between the two schools was clearly established.
Back to November 3, 2018, Bev and I are at the tailgate for the Michigan- Penn State game. We’re reminded by Jim Betts that November, 2019, in Ann Arbor will be the 50 year celebration of that monumental upset. She turned to me and said, “We have to go to that game,” and I turned to Jim Betts, saying, “You heard it from her.”
Today, November 24, 2018, the Wolverines were at the Horseshoe in Columbus. In fact, Harbaugh’s Michigan team was favored by 4 ½ points over the Buckeyes. That point spread hasn’t happened for almost 2 decades. Michigan was ranked number 4 in the country while Ohio State was ranked number 10. However, the Buckeyes Urban Meyer had owned Michigan and had been victorious over Jim Harbaugh for three years in a row.
Once the game started, there was no doubt about the outcome. The Wolverines defense was defenseless against the Buckeyes passing attack. Surprisingly, it didn’t appear that Michigan made any defensive adjustments during halftime to deal with Ohio State’s passing attack. The halftime score was Ohio State 24, Michigan, 19. Ohio State quarterback D. Haskins looked good-terrific against the Wolverine defense. Final score OSU 62-U of M 39.  Four in the row for Urban .This game  was a major disappointment. Better luck next November. Ohio State is now ranked number 6, and Michigan number 7.


PS
Bo’s Warriors Bo Schembechler and the Transformation of Michigan Football provides more depth and insight, and the background of current coach Jim Harbaugh.

Friday, November 30, 2018

Disappointment

Disappointment
Five decades ago, sets the stage for today. Back then, I became an assistant professor at the Orchard Ridge campus of Oakland Community College in the suburbs of Detroit. Also, Bump Elliott
was the head football coach for the University of Michigan Wolverines. He recruited some notables on his squad, with players like Tom Curtis [achieved two Super Bowl rings-main residence in Florida], Dan Dierdorf TV and radio analyst-main residence in  Missouri], and Jim Betts [president of the Michigan alumni football-lives near Ann Arbor].However, his 1968 recruits became the most outstanding class of players in the history of Michigan football. Some of those terrific notables included Frank Gusich [unfortunately passed away recently], Thom Darden [interception leader for the Cleveland Browns-resides in Cedar Rapids, Iowa], Jim Brandstatter [voice of the Detroit Lions and the Wolverines-lives near Ann Arbor], Mike Keller [involved in many professional football startups-resides near Grand Rapids.] and Reggie McKenzie [Reggie McKenzie foundation, Inc.-resides in the Detroit area}. Curtis holds the U of M record for interceptions; Dierdorf is in the NFL Hall of Fame; Darden and McKenzie number one draft choices in the NFL were inducted into the Browns, and Bills Hall of Fame. Further, Fritz Seyferth was a walk on and played an instrumental role in his fullback position. Today, Fritz is a consultant working with executives and lives in Ann Arbor.
I began thinking of obtaining a PhD in psychology; but unfortunately, for Bump, despite having an 8-2 won loss record in 1968, his Wolverines lost to Woody Hayes and his Buckeyes. Back then, there was not the excessive amount of football bowls at the end of the season. It was either the Rose Bowl for the Big Ten champion or nothing. Not only that, the Big Ten Champion would be a different team every year, according to the rules and not their won and loss record. In that November 1968 game, which was played in Columbus, the score was 14 to 14 at halftime. However, in the second half, Ohio State scored five more touchdowns. Woody, when asked why he went for two points on the last touchdown to make the score 50 to 14, he replied to the writers,” Because I couldn’t go for three.” That did it, Bump was terminated and in December of 1968, Bo Schembechler was hired, and he brought with him, Coach Gary Moeller.
To Be Continued

Sunday, November 25, 2018

Neurotic Anxiety Part 3


Neurotic Anxiety   Part 3
Long time ago, in 1532, Machiavelli
understood and wrote about the ability to manipulate and rule the masses. He believed that the employment of fear was necessary, a powerful motivator and a means to an end.  That end was security for the one in power. He may have said “the ends justify the means;”  “violence may be necessary for the successful stabilization of power;” as well as “deceit including extermination” may also be necessary. Politicians, gun manufacturers have understood that the use of fear as a motivator works. When the media or social media spreads the rumor that guns are going to be confiscated, restricted, etc. what happens? There’s a run on buying ammunition and guns. When a politician says build the wall, stop the caravan, deny immigration from Muslim countries, immigrants are murderers, rapists, and etc. fear is produced. This message is music to the gun manufacturers. Incidentally, automatic weapons are for use in wartime, and not for hunting.
Recent statistic pointed out that only 3.1% of all gun related deaths were used for defensive purposes. My friend Paul, an honest to goodness hunter who served in the military, talked about the idea of using a gun for defensive purposes. He said that it takes time to secure a gun, load it, and shoot accurately with daylight and other environmental variables affecting one’s aim and vision. He adamantly said that it was very difficult and problematic to use a gun for protection.
A living Constitution would likely not use “we the people” unless it really meant men, women, children, gays, criminals, drug addicts, psychotic individuals, etc. it would likely not promote the use of automatic weapons as well. Hopefully, a Second Amendment would be rewritten to include the current madness in our culture. The framers were right on. Because of Man’s nature, including irrationality, it makes it dangerous to have the availability of assault weapons in our neurotic anxiety filled society.

Saturday, November 24, 2018

Neurotic Anxiety Part 2


Neurotic Anxiety  Part 2
Ken, another friend wants to buy my firearm when he goes camping with his wife. Ken is about 60 years of age, good physical health, active, gun knowledgeable and an experienced camper. When asked about my gun, he says he wants it for protection. Protection from what or whom is not clear. Ken has neurotic anxiety in that he does not go to remote places to camp, nor has he ever been threatened by anyone. I am unable to convince him or argue about the gun; or safety; or the likely hood of him being attacked. How many camp killings have occurred in California? He is simply not receptive nor understanding about his anxiety.
Neurotic anxiety means that Ken has some underlying issue perhaps pertaining to a weakness, not in control or helplessness that results in the prompting, promoting or fueling his underlying insecurity. Ken was simply not able to identify the cause. He might not even be able to identify that he is anxious about his going camping. Having a gun is simply the belief that he can protect both him and his wife from some unknown danger. He does not address that having a gun, does not solve the underlying dynamic in his personality. Moreover, Ken told me that his wife calls him passive aggressive.
To Be Continued

Friday, November 23, 2018

Neurotic Anxiety




Neurotic Anxiety
This post addresses the Second Amendment, neurotic anxiety, fear, guns and political motives. Briefly, the Second Amendment, written a long time ago, had in mind militias made up of white men [we the people in the preamble refers only to white men] and their ability to arm themselves. The wise founders at that time realized that man was not perfect, but suspect. They believed that arms would protect them against the “ill will” of the Kings of England, France, Spain, and Indian savages in the 1700’s, not fellow Americans. Yes, we’re no longer bothered by Kings or Queens. Nor, are we bothered by Indian tribes as we decimated those Homo sapiens years ago. But killing each other is OK?
The neo-Freudian Karen Horney differentiated between fear and anxiety. According to her, briefly, fear was subjective, rational, realistic, and proportional and built into the mores of the culture. Trail running in Montana and being concerned about being chased by a grizzly is realistic. However, being attacked by a mountain lion,
during daytime, on the Western States trail is more about neurotic anxiety. There has not been a mountain lion attack during the day on the Western States trail in about 40 years.  Barbara was mauled at that time, and I pass her monument frequently. Now, would I run alone on the Western States trail after sundown? No, I would not. More than likely, I would be dinner time for the large cats. I am fearful.
Would I be afraid of being attacked by an immigrant from north or south of the border and carry a gun anytime during the day on the Western States trail? No, but Bill a former running and ride and tie friend [he can’t run anymore] carried a gun when on the trail. He said he was fearful of the big cats and even packed the gun while riding his horse. He carried the loaded revolver in his backpack.
To Be Continued

Saturday, November 17, 2018

Family Reunion Part 2


Family Reunion Part 2
The Wolverines controlled the game, and dominated Penn State, winning 42 to 7. We stayed until the end and then headed down to Caldarazzo’s tail gate. Cal was an offensive guard during Michigan’s classic upset win over the Buckeyes in 1969. Cal lives in Illinois and has been coming to all home games, putting on his wonderful tailgate spread. Dan Dierdorf arrived after finishing the radio broadcast,  with Jim Brandstatter.  Dan commented on how well the team performed. Further, Dan gave Jim Betts the nickname of Rope during their playing days.  Soon after, the impressive marching band passed us again and then we left the stadium.
On Sunday, we attended a brunch hosted by Richard and Judy. Shelly, Steven, Barry, Margie, Hannah and other cousins Millie, Fred and Nancy joined us. That evening, Richard, Shelly, Linda and I had dinner at the Stage so I could get my Corn Beef sandwich fix. Monday, Bev,   Linda and I drove to the airport for our departures.
Linda and I stopped In Chicago for a few days so we could spend time with her sister Ann .I was able to get in my running time both in Detroit and Chicago .Linda and I left for Sacramento on Wednesday and were picked up by Tony at the airport. Another great family reunion.







PS
The Michigan win over Penn State placed them in the top four for the college football championship series. The championship game will be played in Santa Clara at the 49ers stadium on January 9, 2019. Go Blue!