Originally,
Alfred Adler was part of Freud’s inner circle. Dr. Adler broke from Freud and
with his theory he placed more emphasis on the ego and the dynamics of social
interaction. Dr. Adler, in doing so, developed his own school of individual
psychology. Adler wrote about family interactions as well as the development
for potentially good behavior like affiliation, nurturance, empathy as well as the
potential for bad outcomes like sadomasochism.
This essay incorporated only three of his pertinent motivational
concepts- Striving for Superiority, Style
of Life and Social Interest while explaining aspects
of my behavior.
Striving for
Superiority, was viewed by Adler, as either imaginary or real. It emerged in
order to compensate for either some bodily weakness or some sense of emotional
inferiority or insecurity. He hypothesized that all newborns enter the world
tiny, weak, helpless, and dependent on the caretaker for survival. To him this
meant that all newborns begin life with a generalized view of inferiority or
anxiety. As a result, the innate psychic task was in place to compensate for
this weakness. It did so by striving for superiority or mastery in order to overcome
this deficit to develop one’s personality in attaining possible completion.
As a young
child, I received a medical diagnosis of asthma. This diagnosis explained my
difficulty with breathing. I was cautioned not to exert myself physically. I
was also not allowed to leave the house when the air quality was bad. This
deficit was real. Eventually, I compensated and overcame my breathing
difficulty and physical weakness by engaging in PE and in pickup games of
basketball, baseball and football during my later elementary and junior high
school years. In order to become physically stronger, I lifted free weights. In
fact, I became a lot stronger and had my brother and friends hand me the
barbell for bench presses. It took a lot of them to pick up and hand me 350
pounds so that I could bench press. I also performed 30 chin-ups within a
minute as well as 60 push-ups within a minute.
As an adolescent,
I played football for the Denby Tars which was one of the or the dominant high
school team in the city of Detroit. I earned honors and was awarded a football scholarship
to play for the University of Detroit Titans. I pushed myself physically and
athletically to control and dominate those one-on-one battles during practice
and in the games. This could be explained as a striving for superiority,
excellence and effectance. Of course, expending tremendous amounts of psychic
and physical energy, having a myopic purpose, with realistic goal setting were
important and necessary at that time.
Years later,
in my late 30s, I began running and also became involved in the horse world. In
my 50s, I discovered a sport called Ride and Tie. This sport combined having a
human and horse partner. In this sport, I met world-class equestrians-winners
in Tevis and Polo competitions and world-class runners-winners in Western States
100 and other nationally sanctioned races.
I also wore my Tevis completion buckle. Once again, expending tremendous
energy, dealing with overuse injuries, having a singular focus and realistic
goal setting were necessary.
Striving for
Superiority became, in certain respects, my own particular Style of Life as I spent a great deal of time and energy
physically conditioning that included
running 50 miles a week on average and riding my horses 50 miles a week
on average so that I could compete in
the many running events [age division winner in the 100 Western States ], endurance competitions and ride and
tie [coming in first place in the 100 mile
Swanton Pacific Ride and Tie with my
partners]. I ran so I could compete in ride and tie. I competed in endurance
rides so my horses would be ready for Ride and Tie. Ride and Tie was my passion,
my Striving for Superiority, and my favorite sport. In essence, I incorporated
ride and tie behaviors which became my Style of Life.
Social Interest
for Adler meant focusing on social welfare – doing well and thinking about
mankind in socialized ways instead of self-serving or narcissistic interests.
It’s not about fame, leadership, power, self-aggrandizement or political
ambitions Once again it’s a matter of using a real or imaginary weakness or
deficit as a striving compensation for behavior.
Returning to the past and school years. At one
high school reunion, a longtime friend from elementary school and a high school
class officer, told me she remembered me as being really smart. My
personification during junior high and high school years were sports and girls.
They were certainly more important than academics. Not being motivated in high
school academically, I developed an ambivalent attitude about school learning.
That negative attitude was a psychic weakness and my drive to overcome for
compensation.
It wasn’t
until my University years that I got turned on and became passionate about the
field of psychology. My Striving for Superiority took that direction in my 20s
and 30s as I achieved a BS; two MA’s and a PhD. In part for Social Welfare and
giving back, I taught kids, adults, and college students in both the public
school, community college and at the University. I practiced psychotherapy with
kids, adults and families. I performed research on the ego development of
pregnant teens and presented my research findings to a National Psychological
Association.
While in
“formal” retirement, I wrote two books regarding the motivations of college and
professional football athletes and older athletes participating in extreme
sports and presented my insights to numerous groups. My Social Interest centers
on reading, writing and educating on various health topics. Striving for Superiority
,Style of Life and Social Interest are related to both my emotional and
physical well-being. Thank you Dr. Adler for enlightening me to your insights
regarding a motivational model for man. For depth, consult: Adler, A. Understanding
Life: An Introduction to the Psychology of Alfred Adler.
PS
While beginning my eighth decade, I still run 50 K’s and am considering co-
producing a full-length film on racism and sports with my good friend. Adler
would call this Fictional Finalism. Is this quest, a striving ideal or a
fiction?
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