To reiterate, the “mothering person” ( voice,touch,facial expression ) can be characterized as loving, caring, warm or insecure, rigid, controlling, angry, anxious, inadequate and/or incestuous. Not surprising, the child is looking for nurturance, protection, comfort,security ,safety, and love . Taking into account being suckled, as an example,did the feeding engagement contribute to developing and become associated with a sense of trust( a good mother) or a sense of mistrust ( a bad mother)? An/ or , did the “good” mothering person leave and become absent for any number of reasons and then become the “bad “, by introjection, the untrusting mother to fear and become associated with feelings of hunger, frustration, insecurity , tension, anxiety, uneasiness , anger, loss and mistrust ?
With a bad mother ,the child’s emotional experience of hunger, fear,threat and danger becomes unconsciously projected, as a reality , of a dangerous world . If so, it results in a fixation of the child’s emotional development .
When there is the loss of a” good “mother, the child first encounters feelings of acute distress and then followed by a feeling of despair and subsequently a stage of emotional detachment. And , with more losses of mother figures, it gradually begins to lose trust in other human beings . As a defense , the child withdraws and assumes an attitude of indifference toward further human contact.
With a sense of mistrust , begins the development of paranoid , delusional and persecutory thinking .Paranoid thinking is defensive, irrational and rigid. This defense offers some solutions for a person’s anxiety ,fear, insecurity, discomfort and distress as the world is perceived as dangerous, threatening and attacking . And because these children are easily frightened ,experience ongoing frustration, they are easily given to rage .
Paranoid thinking is a projection and a distortion of reality but does not satisfy the wish for safety, security and love . Essentially , it’s a mechanism , an orientation of hyper vigilance . It’s a prediction of intention, motives, thoughts and feelings of others made to be consonant , a confabulation, to fit with one’s distortion of reality .
It interferes with objectivity and rationality in that it tends to treat impersonal things and events as though they were personal .And unfortunately, a paranoids attitude, beliefs , feelings , thoughts and behavior become less susceptible to correction .These paranoid types rigidly hold onto their crazy ideas and believe in a whole host of extraordinary explanations of events.They are not open to rationality,reason or reality. And, they become easy prey from other “ parental” figures falsely promoting power,protection,safety ,caring and love.
Their emotional tensions are transferable and projected to others in the external world .With paranoid thinking, they believe that they can identify and discern the difference between self and another. Despite being unable to discern differences, they act as though their influences and suspicions are established facts.
Simply put, they are unable to identify or take another person's position and see things from that person’s perspective. They are unable to trust no one but themselves . And, they lack the intellectual or cognitive means for reconsidering their beliefs and conclusions. Moreover, they cannot be convinced of their irrationality,hate and craziness . Essentially the defense mechanisms of denial, rationalization ,introjection and projection are paramount.
Accompanying paranoid thinking, is the defense mechanism of denial which becomes established early in childhood . And denial becomes an overdeveloped tendency ,in part, because of the excessive amounts of anxiety , unpleasantness and the threat externally. Not only do they deny reality but they project their own toxic and hateful attributes and feelings onto others. A hostile paranoid person deeply feels that he is surrounded by external hostility and , as a defense, also has identified with angry, hateful sadistic individuals. likely , at first, with the parenting figures .
These paranoid types are secretive, closed, suspicious and seclusive.They deny and can not take responsibility for their failures but instead , project and blame others for their failures and situation . Although they often appear agreeable to self and others, they are actually hostile individuals.
It’s not surprising that these paranoid mistrusting types engage and identify with angry, hateful others that lie, project , blame and scapegoat . Without objective, truthful information , reasoning and a clear understanding ,these brain rot individuals have sympathized - 74% with the Palestinians and 44% were against US military support for Israel.
A US Millennial Holocaust Knowledge and Awareness Survey revealed that 63% of Gen Z and Millennial respondents did not know that 6 million Jews were murdered during the Holocaust. And, 48% could not name a single concentration camp or ghetto, established during World War II. In another survey highlighted by USA Today, 20% of young adults in New York incorrectly believed the Jewish people caused the Holocaust . And a Claims Conference study in the Netherlands found that 23% of millennial’s and Gen Z ers believed the Holocaust was either a myth or had been highly exaggerated.
It’s clear that this troubled, non-trusting, suspicious, paranoid ,easily manipulated and receptive to conspiracy ideas population are a threat to themselves and to our republic. They have bought into Covid-19 vaccination misinformation; Trump's phony 2020 election lies;Netanyahu’s manipulating Trump ; Trump’s war with Iranian;Israeli genocide; winning the Iranian war; the evils of woke, LGBTQ , the Democrats and other nonsense.These dependent, non trusting paranoid , brain rot individuals ,with intimacy fears, are contributing to our nations mental, emotional and physical decline.
PS
More Gen Z females graduate from college than the males yet more of the males voted for Trump.
Reference
Cameron, Norman. Personality Development and Psychopathology.
Erikson H. Erik . Childhood and Society.
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